Menopause - Symptoms 

Symptoms of the menopause 

Protecting your bones from osteoporosis

Loss of bone bulk and osteoporosis are natural features of ageing, but loss of oestrogen accelerates the process in women who have gone through the menopause.

You can reduce your risk of osteoporosis by doing short, frequent sessions of weight-bearing exercise, eating plenty of calcium, giving up smoking and moderating alcohol consumption. If you cannot get enough calcium from your diet, it may be worth trying calcium supplements. See your doctor before you start taking these.

Menopause: how your GP can help

Find out how your GP can help if you have symptoms such as hot flushes and night sweats.

It is estimated that 8 out of 10 women in the UK experience symptoms leading up to the menopause. Of these, 45% find their symptoms difficult to deal with.

In most cases, the first symptom is a change in the usual pattern of your periods. Your period may start every two to three weeks, or you may not have one for months at a time. The amount of menstrual blood lost may also change, and most women find it increases slightly.

Other common symptoms of the menopause (and the months just before and after this) are detailed below.

Without treatment, most menopausal symptoms gradually stop naturally. This usually happens two to five years after the symptoms start, although some women experience symptoms for many more years.

Hot flushes and night sweats

A hot flush is a sudden feeling of heat in your upper body, which can start in your face, neck or chest, before spreading upwards and downwards.

The skin on your face, neck and chest may become red and patchy, and you may start to sweat. You may also experience a change in your heart rate. It may become very rapid, or it may be irregular and stronger than usual (known as palpitations).

Hot flushes that occur at night are called night sweats. Most hot flushes only last a few minutes and are most common in the first year after your final period.

Sleep disturbance

Many menopausal women have trouble sleeping due to night sweats, but sleep disturbance may also occur as a result of anxiety.

You may find that a lack of sleep makes you irritable, and that you have problems with your short-term memory and ability to concentrate.

Vaginal symptoms

During the time leading up to the menopause, you may experience vaginal dryness, itching or discomfort. This can make sex difficult or painful (known as dyspareunia). These symptoms combined are known as vaginal atrophy.

Approximately one-third of women experience the symptoms of vaginal atrophy shortly after the menopause, and slightly more women have them later on. It is possible to experience vaginal atrophy more than 10 years after your final period.

If you experience vaginal symptoms, it is likely that they will persist or worsen over time unless they are treated.

Urinary symptoms

During the menopause, you may become prone to recurrent lower urinary tract infections, such as cystitis. You may also experience an urgent need to pass urine and need to pass it more often than normal.

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will38 said on 17 November 2024

im 38 and suffer with my thyroid, I too have had problems with my period, didnt have one for 3 months and then when it showed up it didnt stop for 5 weeks, had to take the pill for it to stop and now its a no show again, I get sweats which are embarressing, i have bad mood swings, can be happy one minute and the next burst into tears. I suffer from headaches, i find it very hard to sleep, lack energy, i have swollen ankles and hands, I have gone from a size 14 to a 22 in a year, My Dr thinks im not going through early menopause and i should wait for my period. What do you think?

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Budkin said on 15 November 2024

I'm 46 in March, and haven't had a period since Christmas day last year. i had a blood test 18 months ago because of irratic periods, nothing showed up. i have just had it repeated, testing hormone levels, thyroid, kidney and liver function... i've been having period symptoms, sore boobs, and pains in my womb, i do get the odd hot flush. apparently until hormone levels reach a certain level, the menapause isn't detected,
fingers crossed for a happy result,
Budkin

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Wovens said on 06 November 2024

Just completed 51. Had a few ocasions of hot flushes at night and mood swings before my period gone for a break 2 months ago. Also had low energy levels and lack of concentration. Libido was on a stand still for yonks. Then all of a sudden everything changed! That is what worries me! My sex drive has gone up the chimney. I do wake up in the night but with heat elsewhere but the face. Get powerful whole body contractions that wake me up immediately, 3 or 4 times a night. My appetite reduced and I've lost 4 pounds in one month. Could never shift 4 pounds come hell or high water before. Everybody is noticing me now as before I was invisible. Quite intimidating really. Had never had anything like that before. Like I was put on an scientific experiment without me knowing it. I seem to be melting by the heat and it can happen anytime even at work. My menopause is upside-down now! Should I worry? Quite bizarre! Not taking any medicine or HRT. Just vitamin E and joints tablets. Has anybody had similar experience?

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Donna P said on 24 October 2024

I'm 45, not pregnant but my period is a no show. I have period pains and painful boobs and sometimes my chest feels sweaty when I wake in the night and mornings. Reading the other comments, many of you other ladies have the same symtoms, painful boobs, period pains but no period. Is this the start of the change, and are these symptoms the norm?

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makenna said on 23 October 2024

I'm confused... you see I'm 40yrs old soon to be 41 and for the past 3 years I had implanon fitted, now I have it removed but haven't had a proper period for 3 months.. I've done tests and know I'm not pregnant so could it be the menopause starting? My symptoms include mood swings can be very happy to flood of tears in less than the time it takes to boil the kettle,every night I get night sweats,starting on my throat moving down to my chest, I find it very diificult to go to the loo, it's too pain. After exercize when I go to the loo I pass blood sometimes (not all the time) even if I've only been walking a short while. My joints ache, and although I am overweight I am trying very hard to lose weight. I'm really scared to go to the Doctor incase she thinks I'm an idiot, please help as I don't feel I have any kind of life at the mo! Makenna x

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nannynain said on 23 October 2024

I`m 51 and still having regular periods which are getting closer together and heavier. I wish they would stop as I hate having periods, they ruin any chance of a half decent social life. I don`t get many hot flushes but I do get night sweats, insomnia, aching joints, weight gain, constant tiredness and a lack of enthusiasm for anything. Boobs are sore all month although sex drive not particularly affected, older husband is losing his! I feel mildly depressed much of the time and don`t have the energy to exercise etc, I also have mood swings. Went to see a male doctor who refused to take me seriously and I came away feeling stupid.
Is this what the perimenopause is like? If you can get HRT apparently you feel like a new woman within days! Will have to keep trying until I find a doctor to actually help.

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Grumpunzel said on 21 October 2024

Kimberley
I am 48 in a week's time and what you say sounds so familiar!
I used to be a nice slim 9 stone 3 and am not a hefty stone more (not that tall).
I have had incredibly erratic periods in the last year - 5 in 4 months, then nothing, then regular monthly ones over the summer and nothing now since end of august,
I feel permanently bloated, painful boobs like my period is about to happen.
I am grumpy moany, depressed, liable to cry when driving or alone, gone right off sex (husband not happy).
And tired - all the time!
I exercise 3 to 4 times a week aerobically and weights so i cannot believe the weight gain and tiredness!
I hate this stuff happening to me.
I feel like i am standing on the precipice of being an old bag - gone off nice clothes, having to force msyelf to make an effort.
and hungry all the time though trying not to eat too much!
at least otehr people seem to be going through this stuff like me!

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Kimberely said on 04 October 2024

I'm 47, have no sex drive, can't be bothered with housework, moody, ocassional hot flushes and night sweats but not too bad.

The problem I have is my periods, they can be as little as 21 days or like right now I'm 37 days and counting!

Does anyone else suffer from painfull boobs and period pains but no period! I don't think I'm pregnant but getting a little concerned now.

This has happened once before but came on at 34 days.

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debsd said on 30 September 2024

My poor husband!! weve only been married 2 years and Ive changed so much! Moody, tearful and gone right off sex!! Im 51 and put it down to menopause. had no period for 6 months then bang! day we were flying out for 2 weeks in the sun!!.

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Krissy3 said on 26 September 2024

I am 53 and have been in the menopause for a couple of years. My symptoms are; aching muscles, aching joints, stiff joints: of the neck, back, shoulders, arms; bad sleep pattern, pain in my back where my kidneys are at night making turning over in bed very painful..this pain mysteriously disappears once I am up and out of bed. .. Calmness one day, anxiety the next, exhaustion, lack on interest or enthusiasm some days, hot, clammy face but no flushes thankfully yet... the list goes on and on.

I go to the gym at least once a week and tone my muscles and use the treadmill and rowing machine to strengthen my muscles. I cycle every day to work which is a mile each way approx and have quite an active job. My libido was nil about a year ago so my doc put me in touch with the menopause clinic and I am now on testosterone implants which really help with the libido but of course does nothing for the constant aches and pains. I don't want to go on HRT mainly because I think all it does is delay the inevitable. I take vitamins and iron as my once heavy periods made me anemic. I try to eat a healthy diet. Dont really know what else to do except to try to eat healthy, try to maintain a healthy weight for your height and age, get regular exercise and take supplements if needed. I also use Rescue remedy to help me sleep and if does help.

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wassiewoo said on 24 September 2024

Am 47 1/2, still have regular horrific heavy periods every 28/30 days but have terrible night sweats, waking me 7/8 times a night at least. Im am 8hr+ sleeper normally and am finding myself unbearable! Grumpy, so tired need to go to bed at 9, and cant be bothered to do anything! Have started to take sage tablets, iron tablets and now waiting for a miracle! Also started hot flushes during the day but can deal with these.
And dont even get me started on my zero sex drive!

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homelands girl said on 19 September 2024

hi i am nearly 46 and i think pre menopausal does anyone else have slight depression very tearful i have had this problem for the last few days anyone got any tips. thanks

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kitten01 said on 19 September 2024

I'm 47 & have started going through the menopause. Everything ok at the mo. Missed a few periods & have developed a slight bladder weakness. My main problem is very sore boobs does anyone else have this problem with the menopause? LOL

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Enajod said on 29 August 2024

Can anyone help with acne?

I can cope with sleep disturbance, hot sweats and the mood swings but acne is tipping me over the edge.

I have tried an exfoliator, Freederm and have stopped using any other cream, in the hope that if I stopped adding oil it would help, but the acne appears to be spreading, if anyone has any suggestions I would be so grateful.

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old kent girl said on 18 August 2024

I am perimenopausal and have some odd symptoms, I have very vivid dreams almost every night (but no night sweats) and when I'm not having the usual hot flushes I have a throbbing sensation in my face and upper body....a bit like the feeling when you have been out walking on a cold day or after exercise. Also struggling to keep my weight under control. Does anyone else? I'm not depressed but do get very over emotional and sentimental about the past.......don't even show me babies, puppies or kittens, I just weep!! I don't feel like 'me' anymore and I do feel 'old' .........

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ziggyplayedguitar said on 29 July 2024

hot flushes, painful joints, nightmares, dark moods - im sad to say are a few of the symptoms im finding, my periods became irregular at the age of 37, and at the age of 48, it is eighteen months since my last period. My GP would not test me until i was 45 as he said that i was too young. I continuously told him that my sisters were young when they started with it, but he didnt listen and had me examined with cameras etc to find out what the problem was. He is an excellent doctor with everything else, but with this, not very good. my depression gets quiet bad at times but he will NOT give me hormone replacement. God girls - if men only knew what we went through.

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shirley49 said on 20 July 2024

I have found since starting the menopause that some of my symtoms are, my ears start to to burn, then boy do i sweat. But i have come across an thing called Lady Care. It's a magnet that you clip onto your knickers. It does not claim to work for everyone, but has sure worked for me.

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allaboutme said on 24 June 2024

I use to have a healthy active sex life but since the start of the menopause this has reduced dramatically (if I'm honest it's none exsistant) I just done seem to have any sexual urges any more, which I feel really sad about. my poor husband is wondering what the heck is going on, have any of you other ladies experienced this, & if so please can you share your experiences with me, and especially if you have any idea's on how to return to an active sex life.
Thank youx

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Brenda24 said on 21 June 2024

The second tip is to follow a balanced diet. Menopause is most likely to occur when the estrogen levels in the body drop drastically, so in order to prevent this from happening, eat foods that boost estrogen levels. In this regard, foods such as soy and whole grains can help as they are rich in estrogen while herbs such as dong quai and black kohosh too have been known to postpone menopause symptoms.

http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Menopause/Pages/Symptoms.aspx

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Michelle68 said on 24 February 2025

no night sweats, slight infection, no chance of pregnancy and no periods for 2 months now. will be 44 next birthday.

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midnight_poison said on 17 July 2024

im confused i have no symptoms at all

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BBHH said on 11 October 2024

''sleep disturbance may also occur as a result of......... insomnia''.

So what causes the insomnia?

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